We have our answer! 
Here’s what I did, presume this is your fastai tabular model for the Adult Sample dataset. I want to grab the intermediate layer output of 100, when our FC layers are [200,100]. I do the following:
with hook_outputs(learn.model.layers[:-1]) as hooks:
_ = learn.model(cat,cont)
I can then access these intermediate layer activations by doing:
hooks.stored[-1]. This will be of shape [64,100] in this particular example 
For another example, if we want to get the raw embeddings to use with RF, we do:
with hook_outputs(learn.model.embeds) as hooks:
_ = learn.model(cat,cont)
embeds = torch.cat(list(hooks.stored), 1)
Hope this helps @tsm_tau and @johannesstutz